Happiness does not depend on outward things, but on the way we see them.
Leo Tolstoy: 1828-1910, Novelist and Philosopher
It made me stop and think. I need to change the way I see things. I am usually a very optimistic person; however, lately I have really been letting things (and people) get me down.
It's difficult during emotional times to conjure this quote in my mind and make myself look at the situation differently. I need to practice mindfulness more. I learned a lot about mindfulness in the hospital and it's something that I have not put into practice for a long time. I need to make decisions on how I am going to react. I need to remember that it's not the situation making me feel a certain way, but a decision I am making to feel that way.
It's very difficult, but I'm going to try to practice this more.
Good quote!
ReplyDeleteI ended up spending my birthday at the ex's house. We had dinner with the kids and had cake.
It was okay.
Thanks for asking and please keep writing so I have something to do.